Embracing the Paradox-The within and without.

Aloneness is a state of grace.The subjunctive placebo we all want to realise in this world is our existence,not physically,but by a strong and grounded soulful connection.The search for happiness is often done outside its lost circumference.Happiness is always within and it is in its very state lying dormant inside each one of us.Often the cross roads of the philosophies such as duality and the atomicity brings to us the thought process of our existence.When looked upon the surface,you start digging deep for answers.You assume a state of introspection,a controlled way of expressing things and an ardent disciple of various techniques.Again,this assumed state repress the state of simply being.You become lonely and think you are in the right path,but what you actually do is punishing or training yourself to be lonely.Lone and Alone are two different things.Lone is a misery ,alone is a grace.You can be among the crowd and yet be graceful in your aloneness.That's because you are aware of self and your connection with the Universe.You hear it's calling,you talk to self,you admire your existence,you move away from external recognition.These signs require no validation from the external.You enter a relationship.You are you and you lose nothing because you are only a giver.Well,that sounds impossible in this fast running of human race.But we have had the examples of Buddha.The entire aspect of his was to be free from misery.And he eventually did by "Just Be".In the aspect of search for the self,it's better to be a Buddha than a Mahavira.The middle path is always the best,as you are not subjected to the oscillation of pendulum motion.The state of being is a paradox,you will have to be without appendages to be within yourself.The flow is natural and so is life..